When you think about direct sales, you may immediately think about selling products or making extra money. Those are certainly part of the industry, but after many years in direct sales, I’ve discovered there is much more to it.

For me, one of the greatest benefits has been flexibility. I’ve also experienced the value of setting my own financial goals, developing friendships, finding community, and growing personally along the way. Most importantly, I’ve learned the value of having something flexible in my back pocket that could grow and change as my life changed.

That’s why I believe direct sales can be worth considering even if you aren’t looking for a full-time business.

Well, Of Course, It Started With the Products

Quite naturally, the biggest reason I joined direct sales was because I loved the products. When I discovered JAFRA, I used everything the brand produced. During my first year, I held three parties because I wanted the hostess gifts. Free products and big savings? Absolutely!

After about 12 months of doing that, I decided to become a consultant so I could receive even greater savings and have access to consultant offers. I only wanted the discount. Selling was not my goal.

Along the way, people discovered that I was a consultant. At first, I had an order here and an order there. Eventually, people began ordering regularly. It wasn’t really a business to me. It was a hobby that happened to make money.

And for that season of my life, that was enough.

Flexibility Is Key

My direct sales journey began in 1988. I was single, a full-time student, and working full time. It was easy to fit direct sales into my already busy schedule because I could work it around my life.

Ten years later, I was married and had a daughter. I chose to take an 18-month leave of absence and eventually reopened my account in 2000. This time, I built my hobby around life as a new mom. When my daughter was in preschool, some of the other mothers noticed my skin and wanted to know what I was using. I began doing skincare classes with them while our children were at school. Sometimes we met in the evenings and let the dads care for the little ones.

As my life changed, direct sales changed with it. I continued while homeschooling, volunteering in children’s ministry, leading an active Girl Scout troop, and serving as a pastor’s wife. Yes, all of that simultaneously.

Then life changed in a way I hadn’t planned for. My husband became disabled, and our lives were dramatically disrupted. For a short time, I went back to a traditional job. However, caregiving, homeschooling, and working full time was difficult. Eventually, I began shifting my direct sales hobby into a business.

I built it slowly and steadily. I was eventually able to work part time and later leave the traditional job altogether. The flexibility allowed me to work around homeschooling and caregiving rather than trying to fit those responsibilities around a job.

Today, I still value that flexibility as I run Purple Essence By Evelyn from the Los Angeles South Bay while continuing to be a caregiver.

Setting Bank Account Goals

Income is an obvious reason someone might consider direct sales, but I like to look at it in terms of bank account goals.

I can’t tell you that every month in direct sales has replaced the income I once earned working a traditional job. It definitely hasn’t replaced the income my husband once earned. I can tell you that I’ve learned to set financial goals and work toward them.

Sometimes I’ve wanted additional money for household expenses. Other times the goal was something fun—a vacation, an outing, or something else my family wanted to do. Most times I achieve my goals. There are also times that I don’t, and I give myself grace when that happens.

That’s one of the things I appreciate about having my own business. I can decide what I’m working toward. The goal doesn’t have to be the same every month, and it certainly doesn’t have to look like someone else’s goal.

Maybe your goal is an extra $200 for something special. Maybe it’s helping with a monthly bill. Maybe it’s building a substantial business over time. Those are very different goals, and they require different levels of work. That’s why I think it’s important to begin with your reason, not someone else’s expectations.

There’s Room for Personal Growth, Too

Personal growth was not something I considered when I joined direct sales, but it has definitely been part of the package.

Running even a small business can encourage you to try things you’ve never done before, meet new people, learn new skills, become more comfortable communicating, and stretch yourself beyond what you thought you could do.

You don’t have to become a public speaker or build a huge organization. Personal growth can be much quieter than that. Sometimes it’s simply becoming more confident asking a question, trying something new, learning a piece of technology, or setting a goal and following through.

You learn. You do. And then you realize you’ve grown.

Forever Friendships

The friendships have been another unexpected gift. Years ago, I looked at my support team almost like a sorority. We set goals together, but we also did life together. We supported one another through weddings, births of our children, divorces, deaths, and all kinds of changes.

The products brought us together, but the relationships kept us connected.

That’s something that can easily get overlooked when people talk about direct sales. Yes, there are products and business goals, but there are also people.

Finding Community Through Direct Sales

Community can take many forms in direct sales. I have the team I became part of when I enrolled, regional and company communities, my own Purple Essence team, leadership communities, and relationships with direct sellers from other brands.

My clients have become friends, too. I’ve even created Girls and Giggles here in the South Bay, where clients, team members, and friends can simply come together and enjoy one another.

Not everyone is looking for community when they join direct sales. I certainly wasn’t. But connection is important, and I’ve learned not to underestimate the value of the relationships that can grow from doing something together.

Why I Believe in Having a Business in Your Back Pocket

This is the real reason I wanted to write this.

When I joined direct sales, I didn’t need another career. I wanted a discount. Then it became a hobby that brought in some money. Years later, when my circumstances changed and I needed greater flexibility and income, I already had something I could build upon. I didn’t have to start completely from scratch.

I hope you never suddenly find yourself in a position where you need to figure out how to earn money while also dealing with a major change in your life. But I’ve lived long enough to know that life doesn’t always follow our plans. Having something in your back pocket gives you an option.

And you don’t have to wait for a crisis to appreciate that option. Maybe you want extra money for vacations, home improvements, hobbies, or experiences with your family. Maybe you’d enjoy earning company incentives or traveling to conferences and events. Maybe you’d like to meet new people. Maybe you’d like something of your own now that your children are older. Maybe you’re looking for an opportunity to challenge yourself and continue learning.

Or maybe you just want the discount. I certainly understand that one.

A business in your back pocket doesn’t have to become your career. It doesn’t have to consume your life. It doesn’t even have to become a big business. It can simply be something you have available to develop if and when you choose. That’s the part I didn’t understand when I joined all those years ago.

Could Direct Sales Fit Into Your Life?

I don’t believe there’s one right reason to join direct sales. Your reason may also change over time, just as mine did.

What began as a discount for me became a hobby, an income source, a community, and eventually an important part of Purple Essence By Evelyn. Most of all, it gave me flexibility during seasons when flexibility wasn’t simply convenient—it mattered.

So I’ll leave you with a question: What would you want a small business in your back pocket to do for you?

Maybe your answer is savings. Maybe it’s a little extra income. Maybe it’s friendships, personal growth, or simply having another option available if life changes.

If you’ve ever wondered about direct sales but have questions or aren’t sure whether it would fit your life, reach out. I’m happy to share my experience with you. No pressure. Sometimes a conversation is simply a good place to start.

About Evelyn

Hi, I’m Evelyn!

For more than 26 years, I’ve been helping women over 40 care for their skin with confidence. Through Purple Essence By Evelyn, I share practical skincare education, healthy wellness habits, and intentional self-care to help women age well with grace, confidence, and purpose.

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