One common question I receive is “What’s your favorite (essential) oil?” That would be equivalent of asking a mom with two or more children, “Who’s your favorite?” I use so many of the 130 essential oils that dōTERRA produces – both the single oils and the blends (mixture of two or more single oils). Each has its own design and purpose. So instead of sharing my favorite, an impossible task. I will share the first three products I started with.
How I Started With Essential Oils
Let’s start from the beginning. I began my essential oil journey in June of 2014. I didn’t seek them out. I was actually at a Christian Home Educators Association of California Home School Convention (CHEA of CA). As my family and I were exploring the exhibits of curriculum and fun educational resources, we stumbled upon a dōTERRA vendor.
At this time, I was on a search for something to assist my daughter with her seasonal allergies. We tried almost everything and I didn’t want to medicate her. I enrolled for the discount and took the Beginner’s Trio Kit to our hotel room. The kit included three popular oils. We were instructed on how to create a mixture to help with the allergies. We were also told that the one of them would help my husband with deeper sleep.
Before I had a moment to research the products, my daughter used the mixture. I was quite alarmed. I never heard of dōTERRA and did not have experience with essential oils as an alternative to medication. Although I was never a helicopter mom, I was always quite protective. I was joyfully surprised that the mixture immediately calmed her symptoms. Once I Googled the brand and products, and learned that they are Certified Pure Tested Grade, I felt relieved.
And the other product… I didn’t tell my husband how it would help. I didn’t want a placebo effect – I needed to know this was real. I simply said, apply this to the bottom of your feet. It was his first time in years that he slept without snoring. My daughter had a hard time in the hotel room with us because of the snoring. I’d grown accustomed to it. She got better sleep, too.
Now, we were convinced that we made the right decision moving forward with this brand. Before long, we began exploring many more essential oils. I certainly won’t try to list them all—the collection has grown over the years! What I appreciate most is having additional tools to support everyday wellness and comfort before immediately reaching for medication. I also love knowing we’re choosing products that are thoughtfully sourced and thoroughly tested, which gives me confidence using them in our home.
Disclaimer: This is MY family’s personal experience with the dōTERRA essential oils.
Yes, We Still Use Medication
I haven’t abandoned western medication. However, even as a kid, I never liked to take meds. As an adult, I always preferred home remedies. But I am not opposed to prescription medication when absolutely necessary. My husband has a lot of health issues and he needs them for survival.
If I have a really bad headache – it’s so rare, like once a year or even less often, I will opt for an over the counter pain reliever. Sometimes, when we’ve been out and about without a particular essential oil, the symptoms are so bad that we have to take an over the counter allergy pill.
The Three Oils That Started It All

The first three essential oils we discovered were a game changer for us. They opened the door to learning a different way to support our family’s everyday wellness. Since then, we’ve explored many other oils, but these three will always be a staple in our home.
- Lavender quickly became one of the oils I reached for most often. If life feels a little hectic or I simply want to create a peaceful atmosphere, this is the one I usually choose. I love adding a few drops to my diffuser in the evening or applying it before bed as part of my nighttime routine. It’s one of those oils that simply helps our home feel calm.
- Lemon is bright, fresh, and cheerful. Whenever I diffuse it, the whole room feels cleaner and more uplifting. It’s one of my favorite oils for making my home smell fresh without relying on artificial fragrances. I also enjoy adding a drop to my water (using the proper recommendations for internal use) because it has become part of my daily wellness routine.
- Peppermint is the energizing oil. I enjoy its cool, refreshing aroma, especially when I need to feel more alert or simply want a little pick-me-up during the day. It’s also one of the oils our family reaches for most often, which is why I always keep a bottle nearby.
It’s no accident that these three oils are bundled together. Lavender, Lemon, and Peppermint are among doTERRA’s most-loved essential oils because they’re incredibly versatile. Whether you’re creating a relaxing evening routine, freshening your home, or beginning to explore essential oils for everyday wellness, they provide a simple introduction without feeling overwhelming.
You May Want to Explore These, Too
The three oils that started it all for my family are still available together in doTERRA’s Beginner’s Trio Bundle. If you’re curious about essential oils and wondering where to begin, I think it’s a wonderful first step. If you’d like to ditch the chemicals and confidently clean your home with confidence, you may want my FREE Non-Toxic Cleaning for Home Guide.
You don’t have to learn all 130 oils overnight. I certainly didn’t. I started with three simple bottles and gradually learned how to use them in everyday life. And I’m still learning. When you know more, you do better. That’s exactly how my journey began, and it may be the perfect place for yours to begin as well.
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